If there is one thing the pro-choice and pro-life movements have in common, it is the desire to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, some of which result in abortion. In the ideal world, every child would be a wanted child.
The website that sponsors this blog, www.abortion.com, is a directory of clinics that perform abortions and offer other reproductive health services. And I would suggest that they do more to stop abortions than the average pro-life activist.
What most people don’t realize is that at these clinics, before the abortion is performed, a counselor will sit with the woman and discuss the circumstances that led to her getting pregnant. After discussing all the options available to the woman, they will talk about birth control.
Once that discussion is complete, the counselor will normally offer the woman free birth control. In most clinics, it is standard to offer her a three month supply of birth control pills (if that is the best form of birth control for that woman). The idea, of course, is to put the woman on a regimen that will hopefully prevent any more unintended/unwanted pregnancies.
Despite the accusations of the pro-life movement, most clinics are not anxious to see a woman several times for an abortion. I suggest that to those that think they are preventing abortions by standing outside a clinic screaming and yelling, the real work of preventing abortions is actually taking place inside that very clinic.

March 15, 2010 at 10:17 am
There are also pregnancy centers all across America that do the same thing, although they are against abortion.
I am curious, though. I know that you have heard probably every reason/situation in which a female has chosen abortion. I’m sure there are some reasons that I may never have thought about, but I doubt it.
Would you mind enlightening me??
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March 15, 2010 at 10:40 am
Wow, books have been written in response to that question, Jamie… But you gave me an idea for another post. Give me a day to compose. Good question!
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March 15, 2010 at 10:58 am
Education is everything isn’t it?
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March 15, 2010 at 11:17 am
Yes, it all comes down to being educated. Unfortunately, there are so many young people who still need to be educated about birth control. Unfortunately, there are some who believe that they should only be told about abstinence and nothing else. Abstinence is great, if one abstains….
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March 15, 2010 at 5:01 pm
James, about half the women I know have had abortions, and the biggest reason is they are not ready to raise another child. This is rather hard on people who want to adopt, but people who adopt generally want a child with some prospect of doing at least average in life. One such person who was disappointed was Dartmouth Native American studies director Michael Dorris, who learned the extremely hard way about FAS. You can read his book about having his eyes opened after eleven years of more and more heartbreak.
That’s just by way of saying adoptive parents tend to be picky. The aborticentrism blog has a page on the New Zealand missionary couple who had a chance to adopt one of two South American babies, one reasonably healthy and one with obvious handicaps. You can find out how their Christian faith shaped their choice.
Fiinally, as to just how particular adoptive parents are, I once chatted with two friends whose daughter had been murdered and who were working through the adoption process. They had managed to get three loose-leaf binders from the state of New York, with descriptions of a child available on each page. There must have been 150 pages in each book; these were the big binders. You could adopt a trisomy-13 child (the type that looks like its face has been tomahawked, and they die very, very young anyway), or take your pick of any number of Downs syndrome kids of all ages, or perhaps take on one of the teenagers described as “needs a very special family” (translation: if you trigger their homicide response, at least you were warned), or the developmentally delayed ones, like the one I posted about, or an FAS kid, but at least unlike Dorris you’d know in advance he’d grow up to flunk out as a dishwasher.
Faced with the 450 kids in the catalogues, I asked them if New York State had any more for adoption. “Twenty-eight thousand,” the woman told me.
How many did you say you would adopt?
cg
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March 15, 2010 at 5:02 pm
ps– the book is The Broken Cord.
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March 16, 2010 at 11:24 am
James: See today’s post!
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March 19, 2010 at 6:55 pm
And of course, no “pro-lifer” responded to post #7…
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