I subscribe to Netflix. This is a movie program where you pay about $17 a month and you select three movies. Those movies are sent to your house. When you are done a movie, you stuff it back into the self addressed, self stamped envelope they provided, put it in your mailbox and within one, maybe two, days you receive the next movie in your queue. It is very cool.
The other night, I finally watched “Precious,” the story of a young African American girl whose life is basically a living hell. Yes, I know there was a subtitle attached to the movie, but I can’t remember it. Anyway, Precious is about 16 years old, in a tough inner city high school when her father rapes her. Real pleasant stuff. Not the kind of movie you watch during dinner.
Precious already has a child. I’m not sure when she had that one, but the baby looks about one year old. She lives with her mother, who is an abusive, alcoholic living off “the welfare.” Oh yeah, Precious is also very large physically and can hardly put two words together. You’re getting the picture, right? We’re not talking Ozzie and Harriet here.
Ultimately, to add insult to injury, Precious learns that she is pregnant again from the rape.
Now, I know movies are not real and that they exercise a lot of literary license. I’m also not interested in criticizing the movie industry. But I was really bothered by the fact that (according to the movie) Precious never even seemed to consider an abortion. Raped by her own father, failing high school, one child at home being cared for by a wacked out mother, dependent on welfare.
Hello out there!
I mean, if there was a circumstance that cried out for an abortion, this was it.
But, ultimately, she had the baby and at the end of the movie (SPOILER ALERT) she seems to be getting her act together to some extent after winning a writing contest.
I don’t know what happened to the real Precious and whether or not she ever considered an abortion, but I can’t help but be bothered by two things – the fact that the movie never interjected the possibility of an abortion and whether or not the real-life Precious even considered it. Let’s face it, no one wants to be catalogued as “pro-abortion” but in a case like this it’s hard for me to not think that the situation cried out for an abortion.
Of course, I could never advocate “forced” abortions, but what pisses me off is that the anti-abortion movement has so stigmatized the abortion process that it has in some ways persuaded this woman, and women like her, to not even consider the option. And the cycle of poverty persists.

April 22, 2010 at 11:26 am
Yes, Pat, you do give me hope. (Why did you put “forced” in quotes?)
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April 22, 2010 at 1:03 pm
I believe that is real life now in days!
I was raped when i was 10 years old… thank GOD i didn’t have my period by than, so i didn’t have a chance of getting pregnant, but just the fact of being raped is already horrible, and if that had come from my father and i was to get pregnant, i was going to do an abortion for sure… believe me rape is worse than abortion… never did an abortion but rape!!! wish nobody ever to be in that situation!
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April 22, 2010 at 3:52 pm
Chante, John needs to have a dialogue with you.
Pat, perhaps you’re ready to understand the point of the aborticentrism blog– the stigma attached to abortion is the biggest success of the so-called “pro-life” movement. If the nation understood that the stigma was developed and marketed by people indulging in a dysfunctional self-help program, their credibility would shrink to that of the WCTU. It is necessary to understand how they are driven by aborticentrism and why they will never become responsible right-to-lifers.
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April 22, 2010 at 6:03 pm
John, i put it in quotes cause people use the phrase “forced abortions” but I really don’t know what “forced” means.
Chante, thank you for sharing your story with us. That took a lot of courage. I cannot imagine going through what you want through.
And, CG, I understand the point of your abortioncdentrism stuff
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April 23, 2010 at 8:46 am
Yeah, I don’t see many forced myself; I do, however, see lots of persuaded. Usually the “boyfriend” leads, but often the mother, with the girl trailing reluctantly, and sometimes crying. My qualification is that I have been challenging Satan at these little Auschwitzes, at least twice a week, longer than any other person alive (since July 1, 1970).
You’d think that when I die, shortly, I should go straight to heaven, wouldn’t you. But Satan’s clever; he gets me in other ways.
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April 23, 2010 at 8:55 am
You’re right, John. I guess if a woman asks people what they think, they are going to give her their opinion so in a way they are trying to persuade her.
So, I gotta ask….I think what you’re saying is you protest in front of a clinic twice a week. that’s fine with me, of course, But which one? I’m curious cause I know just about all the clinics…
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April 23, 2010 at 11:35 am
On Tuesdays from 7:30 till 11 a.m. I pray in front of Planned Parenthood in Reading, PA, and tomorrow morning (every Sat.) at the Allentown Women’s Center.
There are no deathscorts in Reading and we speak quietly to each woman entering the mill, but at the AWC the deathscorts try to drown us out and we have to shout. You should observe, Pat; it’s a circus. In spite of this, my guess is that one young person in 100 escapes in Allentown while one in 120 escapes in Reading. Go figure!
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April 23, 2010 at 11:36 am
Chat with me??? John??? NO WAY
I rather keep my mind in peace… I don’t like when you try to explain something so obvious to a person and the same person keep saying that you are wrong just because they are living inside a bubble and can’t see an inch in front of their own eyes the misery of having a child inside of you that was from a rape! Believe me, i know the pain of the rape so from there i can imagine what will be if i had get pregnant from it, probably i would even considering killing myself… for those who don’t know what that is, trust me, it is HORRIBLE!
Some people only change when something like that happens to somebody they love more than life… (daughters for example) To point a finger for me that is the easy way out… surviving with your head up, it is a battle that you live every day… in special when you are a kid and the whole entire school find out and people start to look at you like you are the evil in person!
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April 23, 2010 at 12:46 pm
Allentown? I’ve actually been there and used to know the Director of the clinic, Jen something…a young woman, not sure if she is there anymore….Do you know her?
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April 23, 2010 at 2:33 pm
Jen Boulanger, still young, still beautiful, still the hangman. I stand outside of her house in Quakertown around noon on the third Sunday of every month holding a picture of someone in pieces.
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April 23, 2010 at 3:36 pm
Now I remember her!
Okay, so this is what I dont get….Why stand in front of her house? What the heck does that do? I mean, from what I can tell of you I’m sure you would never do her harm so what does it accomplish just being out there? I mean, wouldn’t you rather be out golfing or being with your kids on a Saturday???
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April 23, 2010 at 5:14 pm
John, you’ve been “rescuing” since 1970? That’s when I started with my first “unborn angel”– January, 1970– does that put me senior to you?
The only difference between us is that you’ve spent two mornings a week and “rescued” millions, while I limited myself to only the next 18 years and eight months, day in, day out, and never was able to determine when I could take a break, stop spending money, or leave it up to someone else. God must surely love you more than He loves me!
And by the way, aborticentrism explains why you persist in doing it-= you still don’t believe that you really are worthy of redemption, and you achieve two things by continuing yoiur efforts– in one sense, you enact the role of God or Jesus redeeming you (an allegorical struggle which you need to win); in another, you believe that by “rescuing unborn angels,” you are proving yourself worthy, despite your own doubts, of redemption and Eternal Life.
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April 23, 2010 at 5:23 pm
Pat, for starters, it discourages potential killers from entering the field. I remember hearing a mother back on Long Island: “Sammy, don’t go abortion! Those ugly old men will stand outside your house!”
Charles, for starters, explain your first paragraph.
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April 24, 2010 at 6:02 am
Persuation?
Dunkle sounds like a person trying to persuade- in an evil way no less.
Harrasement?
Sounds like does that.
Stalking? Sounds like that as well.
Get a job and benefit humanity.
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April 24, 2010 at 6:12 am
Women are mandated to have the right to selfdetermination.
They have the right of choice,
they have the right to choose Abortion.
It is etched now in history.
Prolifers, live under the rule of law.
If you want things different you have the right to vote for different legislators.
Spend your time on that. If your cause by definition is of the beleif of our citizenry, you shall prevail.
For four decades now you fail. And fail.
You are on the fringes.
Live by the law, voice your opinion if you like-
usually harms your cause as I have not seen any intelligent prolife commentary.
Educate yourselves.
Or move elsewhere if you cannot live under the law.
Like McArthur faded away, so shall the prolifers,
the world will be better for it.
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April 24, 2010 at 9:01 am
John Dunkle, January 1970 was when my wife and I found out she was pregnant. God certainly showed you much more favor than he showed me, giving you that light schedule, low-maintenance rescue of millions and me a rather straiter time trying to rescue one.
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April 24, 2010 at 9:01 am
Charles: I know you read every post and, still, you have yet to answer my very pointed question about a 22 week baby being killed….
You are so quick to pounce on John when he doesn’t answer the question. You are an incredible hypocrite.
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April 24, 2010 at 9:30 am
meg, if I don’t answer a question, I deserve to be pounced on, so you’re doing the right thing. I answered this on another thread you read, but I’ll repeat it here:
If I think the woman would be the world’s best mom and she’s making a terrible mistake opting for abortion, but she decides it’s not a baby, then it’s not a baby. If I think the woman is going to be the world’s absolutely worst mother and I know the baby is going to be born horrible deformed (and I’ve seen a couple in my time) and suffer to die young, but the woman says she’s going to have a baby, then it’s a baby.
You need to call it a baby so that you can work through your own issues, but that’s how aborticentrism works. Until you have somehow expiated the guilt you feel over having had an abortion, you will continue to be anti-abortion, no matter how much harm it causes women, families and real children. In the other thread I point out that it would be much more therapeutic to you to liberate your maternal powers by caring for children for whom nobody cares enough.
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April 24, 2010 at 10:07 am
Charles, I still don’t know what you’re saying.
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April 24, 2010 at 11:32 am
You’re not dense, John. Think it through: I rescue ONE “unborn angel” at great cost to myself: $180,000 plus (he went to college), over 5.6 million seconds not only of my time, but of responsibility for his welfare even in his absence; the contumely of certain segments of society for being a single parent and at times a low-income parent; the daily constraints of parenting (Boss, I have to leave work to pick up my son; the school nurse says he’s sick.” “Dammit, Gregory, why don’t you give him to your ex-wife?”), the hours lost figuring out if we can make it to the next paycheck on a large Campbell’s Tomato Soup and a box of saltines; him sobbing at the airport because he doesn’t want to have to come home to a half-built house; the uphill fights with the teachers who can’t relate to the spark within waiting to be fanned into a flame of learning; the illnesses I can’t relate to and don’t have the money to cure; the desire to have just one Saturday morning to myself; and on, and on. . .
It’s clear God didn’t reward me with the talents I needed, but gave you more than enough: The ability to pick and choose which days and which clinics you would stand outside, the luxury of choosing what you would say, and when, the privilege of stalking at your leisure and discretion; the right to spend or not in behalf of whichever so-called “pro-life” leader caught your fancy at the moment; the feeling of triumph and closure with every victory; and all so that He could gather you to His bosom in the fullness of time.
So, God has certainly favored you more than he has me!
And if that doesn’t make it clear to you, then I have made you feel threatened once again, so you’ve shut down.
As regards for our comparative levels of experience, out of consideration for your feelings, I won’t call you Junior.
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