Bill Baird.
The self-proclaimed “Father of the Abortion Rights Movement.”
On April 6, 1967, before an overflow audience in excess of 2,000 people, he spoke at Boston University about the public’s right to privacy in matters of sexuality, including the right to birth control and abortion. At the end of the lecture he was promptly arrested by members of the Boston police department’s vice squad and charged with publicly exhibiting birth control and abortion devices and giving away a single condom and package of contraceptive foam to a nineteen-year-old, unmarried female student. The event made headlines nationwide. He spent months in jail. As far as I know, he is the only private person to have two Supreme Court cases in his name, both dealing with the right to privacy.
Now, Bill Baird is close to 80 years old and is barely making it on his social security payments. In addition, he has been a pariah within the pro-choice community for decades.
Things started going downhill for Bill years ago when charges of womanizing started spreading throughout the feminist community. Who knows if the allegations were true or not? All I know is that Bill would tell me stories about how women practically attacked him, but it didn’t matter. The stories were already out there and could not be roped in. Contributing to his fall from grace was his constant self-promotion. Whenever he went to a pro-choice convention or if he just had the ear of one person, the conversation was all about him, all about his Supreme Court cases, all about his press releases (which he literally carried around with him). He was clearly yearning for attention. It was both obnoxious and pathetic at the same time.
When I joined the National Coalition of Abortion Providers, I ran into
him at some event and he told me he needed money to attend the annual “Right to Life” convention. I asked him why he would even go to their meeting and he said he thought it was important to protest outside their hotel. He bragged about how his protests would get “lots of media attention.” At one point, he even told me that the anti-abortion folks were very interested in paying him money if he came over to their side. I always suspected that was a bunch of crap and that he was telling me this in the hopes that our side would give him money instead. It was just an exhausting and very sad occasion whenever I saw him.
Then, in 1993 NCAP decided to celebrate the 20th anniversary of Roe
vWade with a formal, black-tie dinner dance at the elegant Mayflower Hotel in Washington, D.C. It was the first of its kind and we invited a number of pro-choice “celebrities” to join us. As much as I knew how Bill rubbed folks the wrong way, I felt he should be invited to the event because of how much he had done for our cause.
So, I called him and told him we’d like him to join us as one of our “dignitaries.” He started crying. He said through his tears that he hadn’t been invited to a pro-choice function in decades and he thanked me profusely. Then he added “but, Pat, I can’t afford to rent a tuxedo.”
“Okay, let me work on that Bill.”
Within hours, I was talking to Susan Hill, one of the original founders of NCAP and not one of Bill’s fans, but she still offered to pay for his tuxedo. I called him back and told him to make plans to come to Washington. We paid for his hotel room as well. For the first time, Bill Baird was speechless.
The day of the dinner dance, I gave Bill the opportunity to talk to our
membership to give them a historical perspective of his work. He was getting a great reaction until he said at one point that he felt the pro-choice community had an “obligation” to pay him money for all the work he had done for them over the years. In the audience were other leaders of the movement who had sacrificed just as much. His comments were incredibly obnoxious – and it was textbook Bill Baird. Always making trouble. Always approaching things with a sense of entitlement.
Of course, he was oblivious to the fact that he had once again pissed everyone off. So, that night he came to the dinner party, all dressed up in his rented tuxedo. He took the opportunity to catch up with some old friends, if they could actually be called “friends.” I even saw him dancing later on in the evening with Susan. He was beaming all night. As he was leaving, he came up and gave me a big hug and said “I’ll never forget what you did for me.”
The next day, on the front page of the “Style” section of the Washington Post, there was a big photograph of Bill Baird, surrounded by the press, holding court. He was in his element. He had yet another press article for his collection.
After that night, Bill went back to New York. When Susan Hill died, I called him and I could hear him sobbing. When he got composed, he told me how he needed money to go to the next Right to Life convention. “There’s still a lot of work to be done, Pat” he said before he hung up.
Go get ‘em, Bill.




October 5, 2010 at 1:05 pm
Wonderful report. I told you I was friends with Bill from about ’77 to the mid eighties. We’d talk for hours on the phone. (You’ve gotta be a woman, Pat. He never gave me a big hug.)
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October 5, 2010 at 3:42 pm
You were friends?! How was the relationship?
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October 5, 2010 at 5:42 pm
It was good. He wasn’t as clear thinking as Pat, and, like Charles, he was all wrapped up in himself (Pat got him dead on). But he didn’t run and hide, I’ll say that for him.
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October 6, 2010 at 2:13 pm
Well so I take it you are “friendly”.
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October 7, 2010 at 6:48 am
I haven’t seen him for twenty-five years!
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October 5, 2010 at 7:07 pm
Also, I’m probably the one who is responsible for “the anti-abortion folks were very interested in paying him money if he came over to their side.” I used to tell him,”Bill, come over to our side. You’ll be a hero.” Once he said, “Don’t think I haven’t thought about it.” And he probably would have made good money! Yup, old Bill might just get to heaven before me, or is that, instead of me.
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October 6, 2010 at 4:13 pm
He became so destitute after a while, I really did think he would go to the other side. The interesting thing is that all of his kids are pro-life, and strongly so….
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October 6, 2010 at 6:11 am
John,
If there is a heaven,
You definitely won’t end up there.
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October 10, 2010 at 12:55 am
i think that god’s plan for redemption is inclusive of all mankind.
we are to hate the sin, but love the sinner.
it’s just that some people make it easier than others do to remember, muchless apply that.
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October 6, 2010 at 6:12 am
Pat,
That was a moving post,
Despite flaws, real or imagined, this person did some good work.
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October 6, 2010 at 4:13 pm
Thanks, Elena. He really did do a lot for the cause, it’s just too bad how it all wound up….
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October 6, 2010 at 6:13 am
Pat..that 20th anniversary gala was just wonderful…Seeing all of my friends and associates “dressed to the nines”…and Bill does deserve our admiration. He was out there by “himself” for along time! I guess he does just want the be acknowledged as the “Godfather of the movement”…and I think there are “some women” that did not like that…By the way NCAP did a great thing organizing that gala….Thank you!!!
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October 6, 2010 at 4:16 pm
That was a wonderful party, wasn’t it Lorraine? Indeed, there was so much going on with the party (Packwood, eg), I think I’ll write a post just on that one..If you have any special rememberences, share them with me and maybe I can incorporate them into my blog….
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October 7, 2010 at 6:50 am
Make sure you include me, Pat. I was there, most likely.
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October 7, 2010 at 12:33 pm
John, why don’t you tell us more about your life story and why you feel so passionate about the pro life movement.
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October 7, 2010 at 1:05 pm
And bore everybody to death? This is email, not blog, stuff. I’ll be away till Saturday. Hang in there.
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October 8, 2010 at 10:24 am
Bob Packwood…that’s a name from the “grandma’s old steamer trunk”…I had completely forgotten about him! Wow..I remember the end of his career. Perhaps you should write about him next. It would be a very interesting post I’m sure!! He was an important name in the pro-choice movement..and as I remember did alot of things to really help the pro-choice groups!
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October 8, 2010 at 11:19 am
The names you admire make me shiver.
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October 8, 2010 at 7:22 pm
Yeah, Packwood was an interesting guy. Was a real pro-choice hero until the end when all the reports of womanizing came out…then the prochoicers did n’t know what to do…
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October 9, 2010 at 8:09 am
Dunkle you worship murderers.
When you shiver it is like a vampire seeing a cross.
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October 10, 2010 at 6:08 am
That’s not bad, pope. Better than your usual.
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October 27, 2010 at 6:00 pm
Woooo I love when you said:
But this November, it is very possible that Democrats in the House will lose a number of seats and the Republicans could actually be in the majority. If that occurs, come next January, when the new Congress is sworn in, a bill that is introduced to outlaw abortion could very well go to a new Chairman of that committee who would probably be pro-life. In that case, it is very possible that that chairman could then take steps to move that bill for consideration. Then the battle will be on.
The battle is on for life!! And you anti-lifes finally know it. God will end abortion. He will end the killing of his innocent babies!! Get ready and be nervous because the battle is on!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!
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October 28, 2010 at 5:44 am
I love what you say, Amanda, but I’ll bet it’s wishful thinking. This battle too will probably be lost, but, remember, it’s a war.
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October 28, 2010 at 8:29 am
Amanda: They will not bring up a bill for a vote. The anti-abortion lobbyists know they would lose such a vote and that would set back the movement for many years.
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July 30, 2012 at 10:12 pm
A friend told me about this thread. The Bill Baird being discussed here is a fictional character made up by Pat Richards. The real Bill Baird is nothing like this – I should know I’m his wife and I was at the 1998 NCAP event. Someone has a vendetta that should have been handled like a mature adult and not someone trying to invalidate another human being – That is what is truly pathetic. Joni Baird
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