About a year after we formed the National Coalition of Abortion Providers, its members decided it was time to hold their first conference. For years, many of them had been attending regular conferences hosted by the National Abortion Federation but some of the NCAP members were not members of NAF and the NAF meetings tended to focus on the medical side of the abortion issue. The folks who belonged to NCAP believed strongly in having a political voice on Capitol Hill. They argued that while NARAL was focusing on the general right to abortion, they needed someone to educate the Congress on the issues of direct importance to abortion doctors and clinics.
So, we booked the new Hilton Hotel in Alexandria, Virginia, put out the suggested agenda and kept our fingers crossed. Like anyone
who is putting on a party, we were very nervous that no one would show up. But, much to our surprise, about 70 clinic staff, owners and doctors came to Alexandria for the two day affair. Two of the attendees were Doctors George Tiller and Bart Slepian, who both would ultimately be murdered by pro-life activists.
To highlight how NCAP was already establishing a presence on Capitol Hill, we persuaded Virginia Congressman Jim Moran, a leader of the pro-choice movement, to kick off the event. Jim gave a rousing speech to a crowd of people, many of whom had never even met a real live Congressman. The next few hours were devoted to public relations and business issues. For example, we discussed how to conduct an “open house” for abortion clinics and where to get the best malpractice insurance.
The highlight of the meeting, however, was the adoption of NCAP’s first resolution. At that time, the clinics were under siege legislatively on both the national and state levels. It seemed that every day a bill was introduced requiring parental consent for minors, a 24 hour waiting period, the distribution of fetal development brochures, etc. At one point, however, an NCAP member suggested that those who were introducing these bills really had no idea how clinics opera
ted to begin with and how women approached the decision. So, the members decided to adopt a statement which made it very clear how clinics operated and how patients were treated. So, for example, they noted that 95% of minors already talked to their parent or parents, that women DID wait at least 24 hours from the time they decided to have an abortion and that the clinics were already subject to many federal and state regulations.
The resolution was adopted unanimously and we decided to have a press conference on Capitol Hill the next day. We quickly hired a public relations firm to get the word out. Besides the resolution, their pitch was that this would be a
chance for the press to see in person the owners, doctors and staff who actually worked in abortion clinics. This was a “coming out party” of sorts for our folks.
The next day, about 30 members of NCAP, all dressed up in their best Capitol Hill attire, took taxis to the House Cannon Office Building and walked into the ornate Post Office and Civil Service Committee Room, ready to conduct their press conference. But as we walked through the large mahogany doors, we entered an empty room. Not one member of the press showed up. We had given a press conference and no one came. I was totally ticked off but the NCAP members were just thrilled to be in the room and when a young media student from Georgetown University came walking in with his little camera, they agreed to stand behind the podium and make their statements.
To this day, I’ll never forget them standing there, facing that one camera, looking very proud that they had adopted this resolution and were finally showing their faces to the public. It was just one camera but for all they knew, they could have been talking to CNN.



November 5, 2011 at 12:13 pm
In view of the comments about people’s desire to fix other people with their dogma or their intellectual deficiencies, here’s a bit of inspiration from Sudhir Krishnan:
“When you are sick and go to the doctor, the doctor never says “Here are three pills – one for your spouse, one for your boss, and one for your mother-in-law. Once all of them take their medication, you will be just fine!”
As absurd as this sounds, this is exactly what many of us attempt to do in our relationships – to fix others so we can feel better. If we want to feel better, then we need to take the pills ourselves.
In terms of self-improvement, this means working on removing our limiting beliefs, to stop being a victim and dealing with the world in an empowered and skillful manner.”
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November 5, 2011 at 1:43 pm
Mrs. Andy Rooney
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November 5, 2011 at 2:07 pm
good comment, exactly i think it should be a choice for people to understand that, we can’t blame women for getting these procedures done.
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November 5, 2011 at 9:01 pm
very insightful!
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November 5, 2011 at 4:42 pm
The quest to know God is the quest to know the truth. All identifications we hold in our minds – be it nationality, religion, race, or sex are but concepts in our mind. A concept is just another idea that we hold in our memory. These mental concepts, our limited identifications with the world outside, itself become the obstacle to know the truth, as truth is beyond time – it is beyond mind itself. Also, since words arise out of the mind, anything we say about the truth itself corrupts, dilutes and distorts the truth. Truth can only be experienced in silence, when time and mind cease to exist.
from Sudhir Krishnan
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November 6, 2011 at 5:33 am
And Kate, calm down, calm down. I’ll take back “Mrs. Andy Rooney.” OK?
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November 6, 2011 at 5:38 am
Oops, I meant to put this below “I want to share . . .” Here I wanted to ask Kate to save these little Lockean moralizings she’s grown fond of lately for someplace where we don’t have to read them.
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November 5, 2011 at 4:56 pm
I want to share with the citizens on this blog how desperate John Dunkle is for attention. As you may have noticed, no doubt, he resorts to inane comments when he cannot offer anything substantive. Further, after rejections here and at the Allentown Women’s Center and goodness knows where else, he finally resorted to contacting me at my work email. Who knows how many others he reaches out to in this desperate attempt at recognition.
Fortunately, there are laws in place to protect U.S. citizens from harassment via telecommunications. Please know that the FBI has him on their list–miniatures to watch–the Glass Menagerie.
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November 5, 2011 at 9:27 pm
Wow! I didn’t know this!
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November 5, 2011 at 9:30 pm
he contacts you on your work email????
you’re one of my best e-friends and i wouldn’t think of doing that!
i mean… it’s for your work.
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November 6, 2011 at 5:30 am
Boy, everybody forgets. Rog, don’t you remember Kate’s posting all her professional information? She did it pretending to be wide open — because she’d been posting personal information about us, her enemies. Well, one of us called her on it and posted Kate’s HOME address and phone #, the ones she was hiding. And y’all went crazy? Remember that?
All I did was email her at work, the contact she herself had published! And I didn’t contact her — she won’t talk to me because she’s paranoid (if you met me you’d know why she’s paranoid).
So now, neither our chief pro-lifer nor their chief pro-deather talks to me. There’s a story here for a good writer.
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November 6, 2011 at 11:02 am
John, Who are you refering to when you say chiel pro-lifer and chief pro-deather. Don’t seem to know them.
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November 6, 2011 at 12:35 pm
The chief “pro-lifer” is Kathy Kuhns whom I’ve been wary of since I met her fifteen years ago because she was then attacking my pastor, Msgr. Losito (who died Friday). The wariness broke into a feud four years ago when I got tired of her attacks, which had spread to others,
The chief pro-deather is Kate Ranieri. Kate runs the anti-Catholic brigade that hangs out Jen Boulanger’s killing center in Allentown.
Both women use similar language to accuse me of similar “atrocities.”
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November 6, 2011 at 5:06 pm
I’m not the chief pro-deather? I’m insulted, John…
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November 7, 2011 at 7:44 am
Are you kidding me? You, and my good friends Pastor Bahmann and Eric Schmidt, are righteous nazis. Some people might think that’s an oxymoron, but I don’t. Besides, you’re the best writer on the issue.
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November 6, 2011 at 7:29 am
John has never been known to respect boundaries; hence, his protesting at doctors’ homes and clinic directors’ homes, and his posting of inflammatory materials on his web site that landed him in federal court.
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November 6, 2011 at 9:04 am
I sure wish I had the guts to disrespect the boundaries that protect the child killers, but I don’t.
And I did land in federal court and was told to remove the offending material from my newsletter. Very sad.
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November 6, 2011 at 11:40 am
Federal Court?
Scary.
He does seem to worship convicted murderers.
Pretty strange. These kind of people should definitely have Homeland security eyes on them.
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November 6, 2011 at 12:38 pm
I don’t worship anybody (except for my wife). “These kinds . . .”
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November 6, 2011 at 7:52 pm
that’s a good point, kate.
i guess that i’m not as surprised as repulsed that someone has such a tremendous need for attention that they will stop at nothing to get it
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November 7, 2011 at 4:40 am
That’s not what repulses you, Rog. Admit it.
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November 6, 2011 at 11:37 am
Kate,
That is pathetic and disgusting that he does that.
The FBI should be watching him in my opinion.
It does not seem that he says anything relevant anyway, and most people just ignore his stupid comments as far as I can tell.
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November 6, 2011 at 12:39 pm
Except for you and Vince, R. You guys hang on my every word.
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November 6, 2011 at 7:11 am
From David Cain, 88 lessons for life and from those lesson, my top ten favorite:
1. You can’t change other people, and it’s rude to try.
35. Proof is nothing but a collection of opinions that match your own.
36. Knowledge is belief, nothing more.
39. Self-examination is the only path out of misery.
54. The urge to punish others has much more to do with venting frustration than correcting behavior.
59. Try as we might to be otherwise, we are all hypocrites.
60. Justice is a human invention which is in reality rarely achievable, but many will not hesitate to destroy lives demanding it.
72. There are not enough women in positions of power. The world has suffered from this deficit for a long time.
86. Wishing things were different is a great way to torture yourself.
87. The ability to be happy is nothing other than the ability to come to terms with how things change.
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November 6, 2011 at 7:16 am
From David Cain, 88 lessons for life and from those lesson, my top ten favorites:
1. You can’t change other people, and it’s rude to try.
35. Proof is nothing but a collection of opinions that match your own.
36. Knowledge is belief, nothing more.
39. Self-examination is the only path out of misery.
54. The urge to punish others has much more to do with venting frustration than correcting behavior.
59. Try as we might to be otherwise, we are all hypocrites.
60. Justice is a human invention which is in reality rarely achievable, but many will not hesitate to destroy lives demanding it.
72. There are not enough women in positions of power. The world has suffered from this deficit for a long time.
86. Wishing things were different is a great way to torture yourself.
87. The ability to be happy is nothing other than the ability to come to terms with how things change.
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November 6, 2011 at 9:09 am
These Cainzian moralizings are arguably more boring than the Lockean ones.
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November 6, 2011 at 11:03 am
Judith Widdicombe, a long-time activist for women, owner & director of abortion clinics, has died after a battle with cancer. As a registered nurse, she was one of many who saw the horrors of women dying, pre Roe, from botched abortions-self-induced or not. She also provided volunteer counseling at a suicide hotline where she encountered women who were so desperate not to be pregnant that they thought suicide was their only option.
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November 6, 2011 at 12:40 pm
breast cancer, again?
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November 6, 2011 at 5:09 pm
Gimme a friggin break, John. Can you just once be a little respectful and give us a moment to grieve?
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November 7, 2011 at 4:44 am
I’m curious because when that pretty, blond, prominent killers’ helper died of cancer last year, you had to look closely to find out it was breast cancer. The pro-death media hate to mention this. I’m just trying to connect the dots.
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November 7, 2011 at 10:58 pm
i’m really sorry that you guys lost a close friend.
patty, our differences in opinion don’t change that i was really impressed when i googled this lady. she seems like she was a wonderful person.
few people retire and then go back into their field to work in a hospice.
and fostering 9 children is an incredible feat!
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November 6, 2011 at 5:08 pm
OMG. Judy was a long time friend. Thanks so much for letting me know about this, Kate. You always knew when Judy came into the room and I had heard that she had cancer.
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November 6, 2011 at 7:50 pm
i just read a bit about her.
she began as a hospital volunteer at the age of 16 and became a nurse.
when she retired, she moved to florida and began nursing again in a hospice.
she also fostered 9 children!
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November 7, 2011 at 4:50 pm
Guess in the end she turned pro life, ie: she talked women out of killing themselves…we talk them out of killing their children.
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November 7, 2011 at 6:51 pm
Oohhhhh.
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November 7, 2011 at 4:55 pm
Of maybe they were so guilt ridden over killing their own child that was the reason they wanted 2 kill themselves. Sounds more plausible than what kate says they called 4. In any case I will b praying 4 her soul.
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