I’m traveling for this month….out west with all the wild ones. So here’s something to ponder.
I’ve noticed some frightening commonalities between rape culture and antiabortion culture. According to Marshall University Women’s Center, rape culture normalizes violence against women. It’s perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women’s rights and safety.
So when I look at anti abortion culture, it’s not too different, in principle, because it uses misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies as incubators for fetuses and the glamorized morality of violence against women seeking abortions and against professionals providing abortions. This anti abortion culture creates a milieu that disregards women’s reproductive rights and their safety at abortion clinics. In fact, anti abortion culture is founded on a perverted desire that turns people away from goodness, enslaves them to a need that is forever unsatisfied and roots itself in depravity (some would call it sin).
Rape culture teaches young adolescents that heterosexuality in THE norm. It teaches young men that it’s OK to make rape jokes, to watch pornography and to degrade males who aren’t hyper-masculine. Anti abortion culture is not much different–it teaches young men and women that heterosexuality is the only acceptable sexual orientation. It teaches them that it’s OK to stigmatize women who choose abortion, to threaten them with violence, and to foist their grotesque media on innocent women. And while some might object to the comparison of rape culture to anti abortion culture, the issue of consent is hard to deny.
Some research and legal definitions of rape are based on the idea that non-consent should be assumed until someone actively consents, whether verbally or nonverbally. While research and legal definitions might work for rape, it’s harder to define consent when anti abortion protesters actively accost women outside abortion clinics. Whether verbally or nonverbally, an anti abortion protester doesn’t need consent to violate a woman because of free speech rights. A woman entering a clinic may be unable to freely give consent to anti abortion protesters who attempt to violate her privacy as a result of fear, the threat of harm, or a sense of obligation or coercion to listen to their messages. And anti abortion protesters take every advantage of these women with the same gratuitous violence as a rapist, only they hide behind their thin veneer of religiosity.
Rape culture like anti abortion culture:
Blames the woman
Defines the female as promiscuous
Allows sexually aggressive men to avoid responsibility for their behavior
Tolerates sexual harassment
Objectifies women’s bodies
And most importantly, both rape culture and anti abortion culture require no consent to degrade women.
May 17, 2012 at 8:30 am
If you are able wake through the turgid prose, you’ll see that on the 5/16 abortion.ws blog Kate Ranieri takes reality and turns it upside down.
An older woman is carrying a younger woman into a place where the younger’s arms and legs will be torn off, and Kate sees violence where one or two are telling the older woman to change her mind. Talk about blindness.
Kate also thinks she sees prolife violence when lifers and “choicers” interact. I have seen many videos of “choicers” spitting at, tearing signs from, kicking, and cursing prolifers. I’ve seen only one where the opposite is supposed to have occurred. In that one a killers’ helper sprays water on prolifers. One of them stops it. The killers’ helper lays hands on him and he pushes back. And that’s it.
Kate’s post is both turgid and grotesque.
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May 17, 2012 at 11:28 am
able to wade
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May 17, 2012 at 1:59 pm
Yet, more evidence of the deterioration of Master Dunkle’s cognitive prowess. Pray for the repose of his cranial artifacts.
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May 17, 2012 at 5:27 pm
Aw, shucks, “cognitive prowess.” Even I wouldn’t have claimed I was that smart!
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May 19, 2012 at 10:31 pm
Dunkle & cognitive prowess=oxymoron, with emphasis on mo-ron
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May 19, 2012 at 4:37 pm
Great Article, I’m going to share it. What is this Dunkle? Did you people make that up? The writing is too droll to be real . . . .?
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May 18, 2012 at 1:46 pm
i was unfamiliar with marshall university, so i looked up their women’s center and found your references.
they had this to add in combatting rape culture:
How can men and women combat Rape Culture?
Avoid using language that objectifies or degrades women
Speak out if you hear someone else making an offensive joke or trivializing rape
If a friend says she has been raped, take her seriously and be supportive
Think critically about the media’s messages about women, men, relationships, and violence
Be respectful of others’ physical space even in casual situations
Always communicate with sexual partners and do not assume consent
Define your own manhood or womanhood. Do not let stereotypes shape your actions.
Get involved! Join a student or community group working to end violence against women.
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May 18, 2012 at 3:39 pm
how applicable, thanks Rogelio.
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May 19, 2012 at 7:53 am
i agree that it is applicable.
most of these methods can easily be applied to the terrorist that you have had the misfortune to encounter.
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May 18, 2012 at 6:06 pm
Hey, illiterates, say something stupid! What are you afraid of? Lil ole me?
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May 19, 2012 at 4:39 pm
I don’t believe this Dunkle character is real. No human being is this idiotic. You should pull back on the character’s wild illiterate comments.
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May 19, 2012 at 6:02 pm
Love ya Julia for your guts (or is that stupidity) but I have to say it anyway: I don’t believe this Julia character is real. No human being is this idiotic. You should pull back on the character’s wild illiterate comments.
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May 20, 2012 at 11:10 am
hi julia.
i have long since stopped responding to him.
other than a fairly recent phone call and email in which he was seemingly too incoherent to know was from me, i haven’t bothered to waste my time with him.
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May 20, 2012 at 11:46 am
He likely had pickled the remnants of his brain with his nightly martinis… another thing he worships besides the fetus
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May 20, 2012 at 8:23 pm
Yeah, but I’m going on the wagon soon, and then watch out!
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June 29, 2012 at 3:07 pm
Really Appreciate this update, can I set it up so I receive an email sent to me whenever you publish a
fresh post?
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