Every Thanksgiving I’m reminded of the fairy tales taught in school about pilgrims and Native Americans. All the little hands who make quaint pilgrim hats and “Indian” headbands made of construction paper in November celebrations belie the tragedies foisted upon Native Americans. It’s our shameful heritage that never makes the elementary history books. Contemporary celebrations have long forgotten the Native American genocide in favor of a gluttonous affair that’s packed into one day. It’s the consumerist approach to all things American. And speaking of consumerism, despite the underhanded attempts to buy the 2012 election, the GOP, drunk on a weird brew of American virtue and Christian Armageddon, refuse to understand the American majority. So, they got a whopping spanking. And I’m thankful for that.
To those in the GOP who blamed the decline of America on homosexuals, abortion, gay marriage, non-believers, separation of church and state, evolution, science, you should know that you are what is wrong with this country. I’m thankful that your draconian ideology didn’t work. I’m very thankful that President Obama won a second term, despite his many foibles.
On a more regional note, I’m thankful to all those who have donated time and money to those impacted by Hurricane Sandy. Especially, to all the thousands of utility workers from across the nation who left the comfort of their homes, thanks for working such long hours and laboring so diligently to restore power to those without.
And for all things reproductive, to those clinics that endured difficulties to ensure access to women seeking abortions during and following the hurricane, you are heroes to those of us who respect and trust women. Similarly, I’m thankful to technology that can diagnose pregnancy and fetal anomalies earlier than ever. It’s making the battle against later abortions a shrinking target for protesters. I’m also thankful for the contraceptive revolution causing a steep drop in abortion rates through better prevention. And along those lines, I’m thankful for the open conversations about contraception costs and economic justice. All too often economic and class issues are smothered to death by the onslaught of GOP debris.
And speaking of debris, let’s talk about the rubbish over abortion laws. Let us pause for a moment to remember 31 year old Savita Halappanavar, a 17 week pregnant woman/dentist/daughter/neighbor/wife/citizen/friend, who tragically lost her life because she had the unfortunate circumstance to land in an Irish Catholic hospital. The University Hospital Galway demonstrated utter disregard for this young woman’s life by refusing to provide an abortion, a refusal of treatment that is typical of the global culture war on women. Despite the shameful and horrendous circumstances of her death, women and men from around the world have spoken out and stood up against institutions that allow a woman to die because of their bad faith. It’s ironic that for all their propaganda about prolife, the sanctity of life, it’s the Catholic Church that essentially killed Savita. For their solidarity on behalf of Savita and other women here in America and beyond, I am thankful.
I’m thankful, as well, for the women who are using social media to tell their abortion stories. They poignantly reveal the emotional and physical as well as the pragmatic elements of an unplanned, unwanted pregnancy. Their stories reject other people’s limited perceptions of them and, thus, counter ignorance as a point of view.
And, last, on a local level, I’m thankful to Harrisburg PA city council for recognizing how the seams of respect have been ripped loose by antiabortion activists and for creating a buffer zone for women entering and leaving abortion clinics. While it is well documented that escorts provide a buffer against the protesters’ shameful departure from civilized norms of society, it’s often not enough to facilitate women’s perceptions of a safe passage. I can only hope that the rest of the state will follow.
And to all those progressive, philanthropic individuals contributing to abortion funds, reproductive health care associations such as the Abortion Care Network and to the building of a new abortion clinic in the Lehigh Valley, thank you, thank you, thank you.
November 22, 2012 at 6:21 am
Yes, we tell our children fairy stories about Native Americans and how well we all treated each other. It sets the groundwork for Faux News to spin its fairy tales about how the average American is concerned for the welfare of the “jobs creators”, those blood-sucking parasites born on third base who think they hit a triple. American exceptionalism is another fairy story and oh, so comforting. As long as people whose retirements are being spun into worthless investments are told that they are Number One, and every Podunk politician wears his flag pin like a talisman, we stay in that dreamy state, just short of sleep, where fairy tales come to life.
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November 22, 2012 at 6:15 pm
Speaking of fairy tales told by GOP losers, check out the crap posted by
where the narrator says “the truth speaks for itself” when in fact words, either printed or spoken, need humans to issue them forth. Words have no agency but these pitiful, deluded souls reify truth and then have the hubris to think they alone are the keepers of knowledge. Ever hear the expression, “Dumb as a box of rocks”?
And like the GOP, these losers thought that abortion was the single most important issue of our time. When did ignorance become a point of view?
Sucks being you, eh.
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November 22, 2012 at 9:48 pm
when i used to go to clinics, i was busy praying in silence.
i prayed for the babies and for the parents, and for the clinic staff that they all be safe and have peace in their hearts.
i didn’t have time to hold signs with fake pics of “aborted babies” and make youtube videos demonizing leaders, who while maybe supported the choice of abortion, also supported efforts to provide food and housing for those who are already here.
i’m sure that they would say that my priorities are messed up, but i bet i prevented more abortions than they did and i didn’t abandon the women at the delivery room doors either.
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November 23, 2012 at 6:11 am
Rogelio, thanks so much for your insights. I’ve come to the conclusions that these folks obviously believe that they can foist upon the unknowing public their myths and fabrications who will instantly turn away from abortion. Your own show of compassion and honest prayer are evidence that other approaches are far more effective.
And while science and medical research illustrates how wrong they are about 99% of their propaganda, social movement research clearly shows that their visual misrepresentations turn people away from their anti abortion stance. The research shows that such grotesque images make the images seem less human and that by using these images, the activists become tainted by the monstrous transgressions they decry.
It’s instructive for those who would take up such images. These protesters lose their humanity the moment they lie and women can see right through the transparent monstrosity of their intentions.
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November 22, 2012 at 9:25 pm
i have heard a lot of the other antis claim that choicers are exploiting the death of savita in order to promote an agenda.
but it seems to me that when they make that accusation, they are forgetting that this beautiful woman is gone along with the baby that didn’t intend to be born anyway.
it should never have been allowed to happen.
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November 23, 2012 at 6:12 am
Amen.
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November 24, 2012 at 7:12 am
Instead of giving thanks that his life was spared by Hurricane Sandy and instead of getting his hands dirty by helping the folks in Staten Island, this greedy, pompous turkey has the hubris to ask for money. Of all the unmitigated gall.
http://semper-gaudete.blogspot.com/2012/11/dear-rochelle-we-need-your-help.html
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November 26, 2012 at 3:15 am
I am a pro-life person and I believe that everything we have in this world, including having the unborn must be thanked.
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January 7, 2013 at 1:33 pm
Daisy,
are you Pro Life, or Anti Abortion?
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