Almost one year ago, Doctor George Tiller was murdered in Wichita, Kansas. This event garnered national headlines and this week pro-choice groups are honoring his memory. I knew George Tiller well and have already expressed my thoughts about him (see above). But a few months after he was killed, another pro-choice leader died and her death did not attract as much attention as Doctor Tiller’s murder. Her name was Susan Hill.
The first time I saw Susan Hill was at a meeting of the Board of Directors of the National Abortion Rights Action League. When she walked into a room, she literally lit up the place. A vivacious blond with a warm southern accent, she could charm the heck out of you. But if you crossed her, she could cut your lungs out.
Susan was the owner of several abortion clinics scattered throughout the country. For the most part, she placed her clinics in areas where women needed access to abortion services, places like Fargo, North Dakota, Fort Wayne, Indiana and Jackson, Mississippi. Ultimately, because they were so isolated, these clinics became the target of very intense anti-abortion activity. I still have a picture in my mind of Susan, in high heels and short skirt, standing defiantly in front of the doorway of her Fort Wayne clinic facing hundreds of protestors who were blocking access to her clinic. Meanwhile, her clinic in Fargo was regularly covered in the national press because of the constant protests, death threats, bombings and other forms of harassment.
Years after I met her at NARAL, she asked me if I would help form the National Coalition of Abortion Providers. Her reasoning was that, while there were other pro-choice groups in Washington, D.C., the abortion providers needed their own person on Capitol Hill representing their particular interests. As she often said to me, “the groups are great at defending ‘choice,’ but when it comes to abortion they disappear pretty quickly.”
Working through NCAP, Susan and several other key abortion providers helped pass the first federal law protecting doctors, staff and women seeking access to abortion. Indeed, when President Clinton signed the Freedom of Access to Clinic Entrances Act into law, she was there. When the bullets started flying, Susan bravely became a face of the providers, never shying away from going on a television show to talk (proudly) about what she did for a living. She testified before the Congress, she met with the Attorney General to demand protection for her and her colleagues, and she put her money where her mouth was, always ready to make a contribution to a pro-choice cause.
She had one of the finest political minds of anyone I’ve ever met. But we wouldn’t just talk about politics. We talked about baseball (she was once married to a professional player), movies, books and even our love lives. She was a brilliant strategist and an above average golfer. And she could demonstrate a heart of gold. When my father died a few days before Easter, I drove down to Myrtle Beach for the ceremony and stopped at her house on the way back home. Knowing I had been preoccupied over the last few days, she presented me with two Easter baskets for my young boys.
About twenty years ago, her twin sister, Nancy, died of breast cancer. It was a terrible experience for Susan and she literally disappeared for two years helping Nancy through the ordeal. Then, about two years ago, I got the horrible news that Susan had contracted the same deadly disease. Unfortunately, she cut off all communication with her friends for fear that the anti-abortion movement would find out that she was dying and try to exploit the situation. As far as I know, they never found out. Unfortunately, that meant that I never got the chance to say goodbye to my dear old friend.
Goodbye, my friend.

May 28, 2010 at 12:59 pm
It is sad Pat that because of stupid people you didn’t have the chance to say goodbye to your friend, and even worse is to know that we still have this situation going on now in days!
Abortion is not an abomination, it is a choice of who have the procedure, not the doctors who practice.
This so called pro-life organization should educate their own better before doing pickets in front of clinics or even killing and destroying families.
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May 28, 2010 at 5:41 pm
I sometimes tell pregnant women entering a mill, “The natural thing is to carry the baby to term. It is unnatural to have her cut out of you. If you go against nature, nature will strike back.” I also sometimes say, “Unnecessary operations should be avoided at all costs.” I wish Susan had listened.
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May 28, 2010 at 5:45 pm
Pat, friends ask me how to find your blog. I tell them go to “Abortion and Reproductive Rights Advocate” but it doesn’t work. Any suggestions?
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May 28, 2010 at 10:18 pm
Following your way of thinking John, someday the pro-life people who did kill some of the doctors who practice abortion might also pay the price right! I hope it is the same way they killed doctors for a stupid mission! I am not saying that i am in favor of abortion, i hang in a fence here for different situations…
I got to say this, if we follow this line of thinking, those horrible people from Afganistan who migrate to US and killed lots of people were merely following their sick mind for a mission of GOD! So where is the difference in between them and pro life people? I really don’t see any! Pro-life say to be saving lifes because GOD do not approve abortion neither does the Catholic church (but they probably agree with priests having sex with young boys) and those people from Afgan also say that GOD told them that killing all those people back in Sept/11 was the right thing to do…
It is very easy to put GOD in front of words that did not come from His mouth or actions… On GOD’s own words, and i quote:
“John 8:1-30 (web)
He that is without sin
8:1 but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.
8:2 Now very early in the morning, he came again into the temple,
and all the people came to him. He sat down, and taught them.
8:3 The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman taken in adultery.
Having set her in the midst,
8:4 they told him, “Teacher, we found this woman in adultery, in the very act.
8:5 Now in our law, Moses commanded us to stone such.
What then do you say about her?”
8:6 They said this testing him, that they might have something to accuse him of.
But Jesus stooped down, and wrote on the ground with his finger.
8:7 But when they continued asking him, he looked up and said to them,
“He who is without sin among you, let him throw the first stone at her.”
8:8 Again he stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground.
8:9 They, when they heard it, being convicted by their conscience,
went out one by one, beginning from the oldest, even to the last.
Jesus was left alone with the woman where she was, in the middle.
8:10 Jesus, standing up, saw her and said,
“Woman, where are your accusers? Did no one condemn you?”
8:11 She said, “No one, Lord.” Jesus said,
“Neither do I condemn you. Go your way. From now on, sin no more.”
Pro-life or not, GOD did not told you or anybody else to do nothing in His name… HE will take care of each one of us when we have to account all of our actions here…
So before pointing fingers to who does or practice abortion be more merceful and look to your behind first… Have all a great and safe holiday…
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May 29, 2010 at 5:27 am
I don’t understand what you are saying, Belinda. (Is “Charles” you cognomen?)
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May 29, 2010 at 8:59 am
http://www.Abortion.ws
Abortion is always the choice of the woman.
Abortion is legal. Abortion pills are safe.
Abortion is not an unecessary endeavor. It is not ussually even a surgery.
We get cavities, a natural thing. John, it is unnatural to undergo the drilling and implantation of a foriegn substance in the tooth. Should people stop getting their cavities filled?
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May 29, 2010 at 9:03 am
John: the easiest way to get to this blog is to type in http://www.abortion.ws and you’re there! Are your friends gonna gang up on me?? 🙂
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May 29, 2010 at 9:06 am
Thanks, Belinda. Honestly, I never understood why Susan cut off her friends, it was very sad at the end.
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May 29, 2010 at 10:52 am
I don’t think so, Pat, but, on the other hand, they’re not in love.
Latisha, a cavity is dead matter, a baby is live matter — big difference. The birth control pill poisons a woman.
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May 29, 2010 at 10:29 pm
We may not understand why Susan decided to cut herself off….but death is every bit as personal as abortion really….and she did it “her way”!! The anti’s certainly would have exploited her illness if they found out…and she gave so much of herself to the public..she was entitled to this private time for just her and her family!! Does that make sense????
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May 30, 2010 at 9:44 am
you’re right, Lorraine. I just hate not being able to say goodbye to friends. We spent so many years together – and then she is gone. I have issues with mortality…
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May 30, 2010 at 12:58 pm
“I have issues with mortality”! That can’t be new, Pat. It’s too good.
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May 31, 2010 at 9:41 am
I don’t see why i need a cognomen John… Coming from you it is natural to imagine that!
What part you didn’t understand? The part where i compare you with the killers from 9/11 or the part where i quote the bible?
Either one of it is saying that you can point your finger and tell that the women are in a sin of killing a fetus, which in all science community say that fetus and baby are different stages of pregnancy… but i wonder if you can make it public your own sins, and please do not tell me you don’t have any…
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June 1, 2010 at 9:58 am
I have issues, John, with my own mortality. I dont want to leave my wonderful family behind.
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June 2, 2010 at 7:39 am
I wasn’t teasing you, Pat, I was praising you. Don’t we all have issues with mortality. You are one of the few who are able to phrase things memorably.
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June 2, 2010 at 7:43 am
Thanks, John…
So, I got an idea…..do you have any thoughts/questions/etc. that I could turn into a blog? Anything you always wanted to ask someone in the biz?
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